Friday, August 01, 2008
Geraldine bryan and the group were having conversations about relationship issues recently because bryan has been pretty .. recently due to certain things going on in his life. We spent quite abit of time comforting him, at the same time sharing a guys point of view and how it differs from a girl's point of view. Alot of learning done, thanks guys (:
In relationships, there are bound too be alot of joy, alot of tears, , alof of smiles, alot of arguments and sometimes the inevitable happens - falling out. And during these times we learn; learn from what went wrong in that relationship and probably try not to make the same mistake in the next relationship you're about to enter. Then again, some people - they dont see the point, they dont understand why the r/s(s) are/were not working out and then the same mistakes are repeated, tiring out all the other people around them, be it ex-es trying to explain their point, or new people reacting the same way to make that person feel so skeptical that the problem lies with everyone but not him/her. & people find it hard to tell him/her, and then in the end they are left with no more resources/strength but to do the inevitable and leave. Not like it doesn't hurt, butsometimes perhaps they cannot let themselves get worn out anymore. We try to make them understand, but sometimes however long it takes, they need to learn the hard way, even if it means smacking the one you love the most right in the face. Yeah we'd need courage. But it needs to be done or both parties suffer big time, ending up in more tears over the years instead of smiles that might carry them through because of the clarification that resulted in the growth of both parties. I just dont know if i'm able to put my hand to it.
School's been so much colder and emptier. I remember how i used to look forward to school just to head home with you guys. I remember how i would drag myself to school knowing what a shit module was on that day. I remember that however horrendous the day was, whatever happened to me the night before that made me cry, i remember someone there THAT NEVER FAILED to cheer me up and listen to me. I remember how'd someone would always nudge me, and lose to me in the end. I remember how'd someone would make me laugh like CRAP in front of the faci just through MSN. I remember how the day always turn out to be good in the end just because of a few jokes and a few silly things to cheer me up. I remember the culture module, when we poured our hearts out to one another, and i told you, thank you & i love you. Bestfriend, i miss you. I miss having the 2 of you around and having heart to heart talks in the midst of random jokes that make me smile. How come it just seems like only 2 of the 3 of us is left standing now? I need to know what's going through your mind, cos you've hurt me bad. I trusted all u told me, and believed in all you said - which u might not know. Dont run away already, please?
* and chong, thanks, again & again. For believing tgt with me, and encouraging me (:
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